Open when letters, sent as a link
Open when letters are letters you write ahead of time, each one for a moment: “open when you miss me”, “open when you can't sleep”, “open when you had a bad day”. They read the one they need, when they need it.
With Wishfor you write them on your phone and send them as one WhatsApp link. They get a little wooden box of envelopes. Each envelope has its "open when" on the tab, and they tear it open themselves.
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How it works
- Write 2 to 6 letters. For each one, finish the line "open when …" and write the letter inside.
- Add a short note for the lid, like "Read me first".
- Watch it free exactly as they will see it, then pay ₹99 once and send the link on WhatsApp.
- They open the box, pick an envelope, pull the strip to tear it open, and your letter types itself out.
- You know when. Add your WhatsApp number and you get a message the first time each envelope is opened.
Each letter is sent to their phone only when they tear that envelope. Nobody can read ahead by looking at the link.
50 open when letter ideas
When you miss them
- Open when you miss me
- Open when you can't hear my voice tonight
- Open when we haven't talked all day
- Open when you want a hug
- Open when you're counting the days until we meet
- Open when you look at our photos
- Open when you wish I was there
- Open when you're in our favourite place without me
For hard days
- Open when you had a bad day
- Open when you can't sleep
- Open when you feel like giving up
- Open when you're stressed about exams
- Open when work was too much
- Open when you're sick in bed
- Open when you feel lonely
- Open when you cried today
- Open when you need to be reminded who you are
- Open when everything goes wrong
For happy moments
- Open when you need a laugh
- Open when you get good news
- Open when you pass that exam
- Open when you get the job
- Open when it's your birthday
- Open when it's our anniversary
- Open when it's raining
- Open when you're on a trip
- Open when you're proud of yourself
- Open when the year ends
About the two of you
- Open when you want to know why I love you
- Open when you forget how we met
- Open when we had a fight
- Open when you think I'm angry with you
- Open when you want to plan our future
- Open when you want to know my favourite memory of us
- Open when you doubt us
- Open when you want to say sorry
For a best friend or family
- Open when you need your best friend
- Open when you move to a new city
- Open when you start your new job
- Open when you miss home
- Open when you need advice
- Open when you want to remember our school days
- Open when you need someone on your side
- Open when you feel old
- Open when you're getting married
Small and sweet
- Open when you're bored
- Open when you can't decide what to eat
- Open when you just woke up
- Open when you're about to sleep
- Open when you don't know why you're sad
What to write inside
- Start with the moment. "You had a bad day. I'm sorry I'm not there."
- Say one true thing. A memory, a reason you love them, something only you two know.
- End with what you'd do if you were there. "I'd make you tea and let you talk."
Keep each one short. A few lines that sound like you are better than a page that sounds like a card.
Good for
- Long distance, when you can't be there for the bad days.
- A partner leaving for a new job, study abroad or a long trip.
- A best friend moving to a new city.
- A birthday or anniversary, with one envelope for the day itself and the rest for later.
What it costs
₹99, paid once. The link stays open for a year, so they can come back to the box whenever a moment comes.
Questions
What are open when letters?
Letters written ahead of time, each one marked for a moment, like "open when you miss me" or "open when you can't sleep". They open the one that fits how they feel.
How many letters can I put in the box?
From 2 to 6. Each one has its own "open when" line and a letter of up to 900 characters.
Can they read all the letters at once?
They can open any envelope, any time. A note on the box asks them to open each one only when it's true, and you get a WhatsApp message the first time each one is opened.
Do they need an app?
No. The link opens in the phone's browser from WhatsApp, on iPhone and Android.
Can I send it now and have it open later?
Yes. When you watch your box before paying, pick "At a set time" and choose the day and time. Until then they see a countdown on the box.
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